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You are desperate.

You have a quota to meet and you have not signed any contract in this month so far.

You push yourself harder.  You made more cold calls.  You tried every sales technique you know in order to lure, press, inspire your clients.

Nothing happens.

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You are desperate.

You have been out of love for 3 years and really long for a date. 

You tried really hard.  You attend every party, you even go to church on Sundays, in order to meet somebody, anybody.  You call every girl on your phone book.

Nothing happens.

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It is tricky, being desperate.

When you are too attached, some how you kind of create a counter-force - a force that push the thing / people you want away.

I don’t know.  Maybe we can try to interpret this way: 

We all have bumped into hard-selling sales, right?  When the sales rep. is trying too hard to sell, he will become very pushy - to an extend that he literally push / scare us, the customer, away.  Maybe  the universe work similarly too.  When we are too attached, too desperate, we become pushy and we scare people and opportunities off.

That’s why it is tricky - striking the balance between being proactive and becoming too attached… 

But, you know the difference, right?

Cute cartoon with a hint of loneliness and lack of confidence by b.wing

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2 Responses to “What Happens When You Are Too Attached?”

  1. 1 Jon

    I think I know the difference. On one hand, to not tell her how I feel, what I think would leave me guessing the rest of my life. On the other hand, it could be too much and unwelcome and I just won’t know until I try.

  2. 2 shine

    : ) Jon, I know how it feels. Do whatever leaves you no regrets. Bless you.

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