Shine With Grace

Don’t you really believe that you can succeed? 

I have found that, this may be the most important pre-requisit for your succeeding in doing anything.

It is our self-esteem, our believe in ourselves that determine our level of succeed, in all aspects of life - our career, our family relationship, our love life.

In order to get whatever you want, you have to first believe, with your heart and soul, that you deserve it. For otherwise, you will sabotage yourself, consciously, and mostly, unconsciously.

Say, you have always think and feel that you only look average, you’re not comfortable with your own figure, you think that you not fun enough, not lively enough.  One day, somebody looks exactly like Brad Pitt dates you, would you be very confident in going out with him?  Would you doubt that you are not a good match?  Won’t you tell yourself not to dream this kind of fairy tale relationship?  Won’t you ask yourself whether there is a catch?  If you don’t believe that you deserve this wonderful man, a loving and stable relationship, it is doomed to be rocky - for you might get very sensitive when he doesn’t return your call, you may pick a fight easily, so as to match your thinking that you two is not really that compatible. 

It’s all that you think about, all that you tell yourself that create your reality.

If you don’t believe that you deserve a relationship, sooner or later you screw it up.

If you don’t believe that you deserve to be rich, you can easily lose it all even you have won the lottery.

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Therefore, be careful of what you believe in, be careful of what you’re telling yourself.

If there is this small voice nagging you, “See how fat you are, he is not going to love you”, while you’re getting ready to date Brad Pitt - simply smile and tell that little voice, “Thank you for sharing.  I look gorgeous today.”

It’s up to you to pick what to believe - and what do you believe will be manifested into your life.

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